Failures are part of our life. Even at the start of every beginning, battles are fought in order to survive. Even sperm cells have been beating each other in order to cling to that special egg cell. Nice! But kidding aside, people tend to take failures inside and bury it deep in their hearts. This often leads to emotional stress and social life disaster. MOst people push themselves away to people that really cares for them, not realizing that they are making the biggest mistakes of their lives.
Everyday, battles are fought. Some would win, and some would lose. Some would even lose something greater or more important in their lives. But does this mean that there is no God up there? Does that mean that God has neglected you for your sins? Does that mean that God hates you?
These are questions that often popup in emotional people’s heads. The answer is a simple but BIG NO. There is one story that I would like to share…
“These past few weeks, there has been a great storm that has been hitting us couples, me and my momie. Actually, this kind of storm hit us a very long time ago and has been trying to come back ever since. There came a time where I decided that I would give up and let it all go. I cried just thinking the thought of losing her, or even leaving her in this great storm. I asked for advice from my family. At that moment, I prayed to God to help me fix these broken walls in my heart, rebuild the foundation and rebuild our souls. I decided to leave. But God has working plans. My girl didnt let me leave her, even proved her love for me even with this storm in the midst. She never let me think that there was no one loving me, and never let me think sad thought when we talk over the phone. She always reminds me that she loves me nomatter what, and she always gives me the smile I always wanna see. The pain of that storm passed away, and our love has gained another strong foundation, and another level. In addition, God has given me a job to support my family and her, and given me great opportunities to keep myself busy in times like these.”
So my point is, God would never forsake you specillay in times of great emotionall distress. He has a working plan for you and He would never hate you. You just have to open your eyes in the reality. Stand in front of a mirror and ask yourself if what you are doing is worthy and if what you are doing is right. From my own point of view, we almost lost the battle, but we didnt give up.
We all have our own guardians(also called friends and families) in this world. We also have our own shares of demons. God gave us the ability to chose our own paths so NEVER blame Him or NEVER question Him for all the things that has been happening to our lives. Always remember that He always has a Plan for us, which depends on the path we chose to take. We just have to chose the right path in order to fully understand the way he is doing things.
Bottomline, never question Him. If there would come a time where people would tend to push you out of the right path, stop and ask yourself if your choice is right.
We all have our shares of failures but it is in the heart of a person to see it as an Opportunity rather that a failure that would literally push his/her away from righteous path.